The Divorce

Divorce is a four letter word. It disrupts your life, your children's lives and those closest to you. Which spouse gets this, which spouse gets that, where will the children live, when is visitation, etcetera, etcetera. I would not wish this on any one's family. But why does it seem like this four letter word is an EPIDEMIC? It seems like families are breaking up every where. Why can't couples seem to get it together? In my case we were all into each other in the beginning. You would not see us without each other. We would have time with our friends, but it was not that often. Once some years past things started to change. No longer were we into each other. We started having different goals, dreams, ideas, friends, and different directions of where we were going. I wanted to go east, he wanted to west, and there just seemed to be no middle. If nothing else I learned that compromise is the key in any marriage. I also learned that if you don't trust your spouse, you really don't have anything. The past 3 years have truly been a roller coaster for me. The only way I am still standing is my faith in God. I know that he never makes a mistake and he is in control. I think its time for me to write that book that I keep saying is in me. I'll keep you guys posted as to when to expect it.

Until next blog,
The Hollywood Diva